Love, Sex and All That Jazz

Love, Sex and All That Jazz

Here is a challenge for you. Do a Google search with the question below and see how many answers you get. If there is one thing human beings are confused about – it’s love. What is Love? If you could unlock the answer to this question you would be the genius of all time. Some say love is chemistry, and some say love is passionate commitment. The Greeks had 6 words for what we lump into one word, no wonder it’s confusing. However, we know when we feel loved. Yet, to love someone doesn’t always feel good. That’s usually when…

Sex With No Hands Involved

Sex With No Hands Involved

Are porn videos realistic? Actors assume awkward positions so that cameras can get the shot. Actors are also made to do extreme sexual acts that under normal circumstances would be painful, or undesirable for most people. It’s fantasy meant to shock and stimulate the release hormones and neurotransmitters, which trap the user into seeking more. Does Internet Porn Cause More Violence? In 1982, the National Institute of Mental Health identified these major effects on children viewing violence on television: Children may become less sensitive to pain and suffering. Children become more fearful of the world around them. Children are more likely to behave in…

Erectile Dysfunction at 22? A Symptom of Early Porn Addiction

Erectile Dysfunction at 22? A Symptom of Early Porn Addiction

Driven by a brain that is suddenly fascinated by sex at 10 years old, boys easily become captivated by internet porn. Children can develop personal sexual integrity and discipline if parents teach them about love, privacy, respect, and future relationships, starting from a young age.  But we also need to teach them how to deal with temptation and peer pressure. It’s wise to reduce overall internet activity and guide children’s free time toward hobbies, sports and healthy activities. Many young men found internet porn at a young age, and now experience erectile dysfunction in early adulthood. Usually guys discover they have…

Lasting Love: A Relationship That Creates Joy!

Lasting Love: A Relationship That Creates Joy!

Sex is one of the ways that love can be expressed in a relationship. But not all sex is love. Porn is tempting because it arouses a burning physical desire. That desire is not connected to an impulse to give joy to the beloved, so it is not love. Love is a Relationship People often think love should be spontaneous, something that happens to you without your knowing why or how. But real love is more like a seed that sprouts and grows from within. It takes effort and nurturing because it’s a relationship. Love can not be experienced alone…

Protect Your Child From Developing A Pornogrophy Habit

Protect Your Child From Developing A Pornogrophy Habit

Internet software is helpful in protecting children from early exposure to porn, but it’s not foolproof. A school friend may have porn on their smartphone. Loving family relationships and your child’s own conscience is their best protection. Create an Environment that Fosters Healthy Relationships Spend one-on-one time Spend time doing something enjoyable with each child. This creates trust and allows for deeper bonding. Get to know your child’s personality and encourage their strengths. while spending time together you can become aware of opportunities to discuss sensitive topics. Be a role model Be the kind of married couple your child wants to…

Debunking Alfred Kinsey – Sex Miseducation

Debunking Alfred Kinsey – Sex Miseducation

Part 2 of a 5 part series on sex miseducation The belief in sex as a need  is a dogmatic notion arising from the discredited claims of Alfred Kinsey. If sex is a need, such as food and water, we feel it’s an absolute necessity. This viewpoint creates a feeling of entitlement which blurs the relationship between sex and love. Research in the United States, for example, shows 3 percent have remained celibate throughout their lives. This represents hundreds of thousands of people. Millions worldwide have waited to begin sexual involvement until age thirty and beyond, with no proven ill effects….

How can I gain the most spiritual support?

How can I gain the most spiritual support?

God is your loving parent who understands you and is waiting for you to reach out in prayer. Just be honest, be yourself, and express your needs and concerns. Tell God what you really care about and what’s going on in your life. Many people have a profound experience of grace once they get totally real with God. The Practice of Faith and Love Divine Principle’s insight into making a basis for drawing God’s power is expressed in the formula of making a Foundation of Faith plus a Foundation of Substance. The faith foundation involves acts of dedication to words…

Get Connected – Don’t Let Loneliness Be Your Trigger

Get Connected – Don’t Let Loneliness Be Your Trigger

A youth pastor who remained a virgin until his marriage at 30 said, “Whenever I got a sexual urge, I took it as a signal that I needed other people, and I reached out to my friends and family.” Sex-related habits are most clearly a substitute for our need for true love, and so strong and healthy relations with others is the best remedy and  protection. Loneliness Is A Trigger For Porn Use In addition, the use of porn is associated with greater loneliness, since it interferes with connecting with other people on an emotional and spiritual level. On the…