Lasting Love: A Relationship That Creates Joy!

Lasting Love: A Relationship That Creates Joy!

Sex is one of the ways that love can be expressed in a relationship. But not all sex is love. Porn is tempting because it arouses a burning physical desire. That desire is not connected to an impulse to give joy to the beloved, so it is not love. Love is a Relationship People often think love should be spontaneous, something that happens to you without your knowing why or how. But real love is more like a seed that sprouts and grows from within. It takes effort and nurturing because it’s a relationship. Love can not be experienced alone…

High Noon Summit On Porn – Register Now!

High Noon Summit On Porn – Register Now!

Calling all concerned Unificationists! Do you want to work together to create solutions? You know pornography is today’s problem, so… you’re invited to attend the High Noon Summit On Porn April 7 to April 9, 2017   at the International Peace Education Center in Las Vegas The summit is complete with speakers like Mike Leahy from Bravehearts, Sam Black from Covenant Eyes, Dawn Hawkins from the National Center on Sexual Exploitation, and Clay Olsen from Fight the New Drug. In addition, we’ll be hearing from our own Kevin Thompson, David Wolfenberger, Andrew Love, and many new faces who are taking up…

Get Informed – Expect Recovery to be a Lifestyle

Get Informed – Expect Recovery to be a Lifestyle

People who lose weight and keep it off say that temporary diets don’t work. They had to set up a new way of life, full of new routines, new pleasures and new preferences. Sometimes even making new friends and associates is necessary if you really want to change your life. Changing Your Lifestyle Addiction is more than just the abuse of a drug or some activity. This habit can effect a lot of your daily life and routines. How do you spend your time, effort, and money? Can you see how your sexual habits affect these choices? It stands to reason then…

Get Informed – Anticipate Relapses

Get Informed – Anticipate Relapses

When learning any new skill or behavior, it’s inevitable to slip up once in awhile and revert to old habits. Relapses are common in the beginning of the process of change. This usually happens during times of high stress when you just go without thinking for what is familiar and comforting. A Slip Up Is Not Failure This slip up or lapse can be minor–like grabbing a donut when on a diet. You can quickly get back on track, or you can spiral downward rapidly. Before you know it you’re back into your full-blown habit, called a relapse. Getting smart…

Get Informed – Learn About Change

Get Informed – Learn About Change

Whether it’s quitting smoking, going to the gym or learning to play golf, change is a process, not a one time event. It involves predictable stages. And each stage needs different resources for progress to happen. What’s The Process? Think of any change you’ve made, like losing weight. At first, you may not have felt any need. Then, you started toying with the idea and investigated the possibility. Next you began to  prepare by learning about diets and exercise. Maybe you bought some equipment, a diet book, or joined a gym. Finally you took action, started a new routine of…

Get Informed About the Habit

Get Informed About the Habit

It’s one thing to learn about your habit and how it affects your mind and heart, your relationships and even society. It’s another thing to understand about how change takes place and the path of healing and recovery from the habit and its effects. Just as you wouldn’t think of renovating your garage without understanding how it’s done and what to expect, so you need to become familiar with what it takes to renovate yourself. Understand How the Habit Works The way a well-formed habit works has been studied. Something that makes you think of it is a trigger–seeing something, feeling…