Your Role As A Parent – Be Hopeful

Your Role As A Parent – Be Hopeful

When your child was born you were hopeful. When they were learning to crawl, walk and use the toilet you encouraged them with faith that they would accomplish the task. You’ve been doing this all along, so don’t lose hope now when facing issues related to porn. You may be feeling overwhelmed because you don’t know how to help. But just like all the other challenges your child has overcome, he or she needed to find the power within and figure it out. Your belief in your son or daughter, and clear guidance, will give them strength. Protect Young Minds…

Lasting Love: A Relationship That Creates Joy!

Lasting Love: A Relationship That Creates Joy!

Sex is one of the ways that love can be expressed in a relationship. But not all sex is love. Porn is tempting because it arouses a burning physical desire. That desire is not connected to an impulse to give joy to the beloved, so it is not love. Love is a Relationship People often think love should be spontaneous, something that happens to you without your knowing why or how. But real love is more like a seed that sprouts and grows from within. It takes effort and nurturing because it’s a relationship. Love can not be experienced alone…

Get Connected – Expand your social circle

Get Connected – Expand your social circle

A brick needs six other bricks to stabilize it within a wall: two on each side, two above, two below. So it is best to have at least six people in your life that you are close to in those positions. Examine Your Relationships Check your range of social contacts. Do you have two close friends? Do you have good friends of both genders? Are any of these people someone you could confide in? Consider vertical relationships–elders and youngers. Do you have older people you can go to for support? Are you mentoring or caring for someone younger than you? If…

Get Connected – Don’t Let Loneliness Be Your Trigger

Get Connected – Don’t Let Loneliness Be Your Trigger

A youth pastor who remained a virgin until his marriage at 30 said, “Whenever I got a sexual urge, I took it as a signal that I needed other people, and I reached out to my friends and family.” Sex-related habits are most clearly a substitute for our need for true love, and so strong and healthy relations with others is the best remedy and  protection. Loneliness Is A Trigger For Porn Use In addition, the use of porn is associated with greater loneliness, since it interferes with connecting with other people on an emotional and spiritual level. On the…