Spouses


“Let your hopes, not your hurts, shape your future.” – Robert H. Schuller


Discovering that your husband or wife has a pornography habit can feel like learning they are having an affair. It can cause you to doubt yourself–“aren’t I good enough?” You may move between anger and hurt–between wanting to police your spouse, get away from them, or help them with whatever is driving the habit.

PMO Spouse Support

We’re here to help!

  • If you need to talk to someone, use the form below to contact Cheryl. We can arrange a time to talk.

Mitsue’s Group Meeting

An online group meeting for Japanese wives. This group will be using the booklet, “Truth and Mercy,” by Vicky Tiede, as a source for guidance. Contact Mitsue Wolfenberger for more details by using the form below with “group meeting” in the subject line. 


Get Support

You may be experiencing PTSD, or general trauma due to your spouses sexual problem. Don’t be afraid to get the help and support you need for yourself.

Consider COSA – Recovery program for people affected by the sexual addictions of others.

More Resources:

We’ve put together a list of places you can look for help online, including counseling, books, videos, workshops, blogs and articles. In the near future we hope to have more for you.

Click the button for a downloadable PDF:

Counseling, Books & Support





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