Spouses


“Let your hopes, not your hurts, shape your future.” – Robert H. Schuller


Discovering that your husband or wife has a preoccupation with pornography, masturbation or other sexual activities can feel like learning they are having an affair. It can cause you to doubt yourself–“aren’t I good enough?” You may move between anger and hurt–between wanting to police your spouse, get away from them, or help them with whatever is driving the habit.


Click on the links below to find help and hope:


You may also find help through an organization called People Can Change. Their primary mission is to support men who have same-sex attraction but wish to change. However, they also have programs for wives of those men, and for wives of men with sexual addictions. You can check them out here: http://peoplecanchange.com/wives/