Spouses


“Let your hopes, not your hurts, shape your future.” – Robert H. Schuller


Discovering that your husband or wife has a pornography habit can feel like learning they are having an affair. It can cause you to doubt yourself–“aren’t I good enough?” You may move between anger and hurt–between wanting to police your spouse, get away from them, or help them with whatever is driving the habit.

PMO Spouse Support

We’re here to help!

  • If you need to talk to someone, use one of the emails below to set up a phone call:
  • mitsue@puremind.online
  • croth@puremind.online

Mitsue’s Group Meeting

An online group meeting for Japanese wives. This group will be using the booklet, “Truth and Mercy,” by Vicky Tiede, as a source for guidance. Contact Mitsue Wolfenberger for more details.


Spouses Forum

We’ve created a private Facebook group as a forum. This type of group is classified “secret” by Facebook, which means no one can see your posts or your membership other than fellow members of the group. Nothing about your membership in the group will show up on your own Facebook page. The group is private, confidential and moderated by PMO staff or volunteers. Join to help us build a support network for spouses.
In your message please include the URL link to your personal Facebook page, and a short introduction letting us know who you are and why you want to join.

A staff member will add you as a friend on their personal page and then contact you by email with a link to the group.


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