Love, Sex and All That Jazz

Love, Sex and All That Jazz

Here is a challenge for you. Do a Google search with the question below and see how many answers you get. If there is one thing human beings are confused about – it’s love. What is Love? If you could unlock the answer to this question you would be the genius of all time. Some say love is chemistry, and some say love is passionate commitment. The Greeks had 6 words for what we lump into one word, no wonder it’s confusing. However, we know when we feel loved. Yet, to love someone doesn’t always feel good. That’s usually when…

Sex With No Hands Involved

Sex With No Hands Involved

Are porn videos realistic? Actors assume awkward positions so that cameras can get the shot. Actors are also made to do extreme sexual acts that under normal circumstances would be painful, or undesirable for most people. It’s fantasy meant to shock and stimulate the release hormones and neurotransmitters, which trap the user into seeking more. Does Internet Porn Cause More Violence? In 1982, the National Institute of Mental Health identified these major effects on children viewing violence on television: Children may become less sensitive to pain and suffering. Children become more fearful of the world around them. Children are more likely to behave in…

Why People Think Watching Porn Is Normal

Why People Think Watching Porn Is Normal

I saw this infographic with porn statistics on Huffington Post. The title for the infographic is “Everyone You Know is Watching Porn”. That sounds like an excuse an elementary school child would use, “but everyone does it!” And the good parent says, “That doesn’t make it right.” In our current culture, right and wrong are always relative. Religion and moral standards have been trashed as being “old-fashioned” and naïve. Instead we value individual feelings, and freedom of expression. Oh, but we only value what everyone else is doing and saying. There’s very little independent thinking going on. Who Needs to…

Get Skilled – In Healthy Lovemaking

Get Skilled – In Healthy Lovemaking

Part of recovery from the habit is to gain a better understanding of a healthy sexual relationship. However, if you’re single it’s best to think as little about sex as possible while you’re recovering from a porn habit. Married couples should do some research on the subject of lovemaking. Learn about the differences between men and women, and what a happily married sex life looks like. How To Create A Passionate Love Life Pornography “sells” its unrealistic and warped sex education very vividly. To counter this you need to re-educate yourself about lovemaking. With a new understanding and vision, you can create…

What Does Love Look Like?

What Does Love Look Like?

Do you think love is complicated, hard to describe, and difficult to figure out? Everyone longs for it because life is not worth living without it. We think we will know it when we see it, or feel it, but then we’re disappointed. Literature, movies, music and art are littered with the stories of broken hearts, love found and lost. The primary focus of the human saga is love and relationships. Yet, we still find ourselves confused about what love is, while we struggle to fulfill needs. The Imprint of Love’s Image Your earliest images of love came from your…

Empowering Your Desire To Kick The Porn Habit

Empowering Your Desire To Kick The Porn Habit

Did you make a New Year’s Resolution yet? Or perhaps you just set a few goals to work toward. January is definitely the month when most people decide to start fresh. Good intentions aside, how will you stick with your resolution and reach your goals? This is especially important to consider if you’re trying to overcome a porn habit, or any unhealthy sexual habit. You will need a support system of people who care, and you will need empowering resources. A Sexual Integrity Mentor, Accountability Partner, and Accountability Software are essential, but you’ll also need to open your mind to…