Get Skilled – In Healthy Lovemaking

Get Skilled – In Healthy Lovemaking

Part of recovery from the habit is to gain a better understanding of a healthy sexual relationship. However, if you’re single it’s best to think as little about sex as possible while you’re recovering from a porn habit. Married couples should do some research on the subject of lovemaking. Learn about the differences between men and women, and what a happily married sex life looks like. How To Create A Passionate Love Life Pornography “sells” its unrealistic and warped sex education very vividly. To counter this you need to re-educate yourself about lovemaking. With a new understanding and vision, you can create…

How Do I Help My Friend, Brother or Sister Who Has A Porn Habit?

How Do I Help My Friend, Brother or Sister Who Has A Porn Habit?

When you first find out that someone you care about has a porn habit you might feel like pulling away. You might be upset or angry, or you might feel like you have to do something to help them. All of these feelings are natural, but think through your responses before you get involved. Encourage Them to Get Professional Help A porn habit is like any other serious addiction. The relationship between the brain and body has been rewired into a state of dependency. It can take a lot of training and effort to change this habit. In some cases…

High Noon Summit On Porn – Register Now!

High Noon Summit On Porn – Register Now!

Calling all concerned Unificationists! Do you want to work together to create solutions? You know pornography is today’s problem, so… you’re invited to attend the High Noon Summit On Porn April 7 to April 9, 2017   at the International Peace Education Center in Las Vegas The summit is complete with speakers like Mike Leahy from Bravehearts, Sam Black from Covenant Eyes, Dawn Hawkins from the National Center on Sexual Exploitation, and Clay Olsen from Fight the New Drug. In addition, we’ll be hearing from our own Kevin Thompson, David Wolfenberger, Andrew Love, and many new faces who are taking up…

What Does Love Look Like?

What Does Love Look Like?

Do you think love is complicated, hard to describe, and difficult to figure out? Everyone longs for it because life is not worth living without it. We think we will know it when we see it, or feel it, but then we’re disappointed. Literature, movies, music and art are littered with the stories of broken hearts, love found and lost. The primary focus of the human saga is love and relationships. Yet, we still find ourselves confused about what love is, while we struggle to fulfill needs. The Imprint of Love’s Image Your earliest images of love came from your…

Start Fresh With A 30 Day Challenge!

Start Fresh With A 30 Day Challenge!

The Lunar New Year is another opportunity to challenge yourself to meet a desired goal. If you’re striving to overcome an unwanted sexual habit, here’s an idea to get you going. Challenge yourself to abstain from porn or masturbation for 30 days, but first, set up a winning strategy. 7 Steps to Success If you were going to run a race you would do some training first. Part of your preparation would be to understand your strengths and weaknesses, the environment and conditions you would be running in, and to set up a support system for the entire course. That’s a…

Why You Should Join The Fight Against Porn

Why You Should Join The Fight Against Porn

Porn promotes pain and violence. Online porn is addictive and causes the user to need increasing levels of aggressive or perverse images to get the same level of stimulation. It breeds sexual dysfunction. It destroys marriages and families. Fight Porn to Keep Children Safe Online porn feeds the sex enslavement industry. One out of every 5 pornographic images is of a child, and 55% of child pornography comes from America. Is that the kind of world you want to live in? Is this what you want for your children or grandchildren? Children are victims of porn and sexual abuse. They…

Empowering Your Desire To Kick The Porn Habit

Empowering Your Desire To Kick The Porn Habit

Did you make a New Year’s Resolution yet? Or perhaps you just set a few goals to work toward. January is definitely the month when most people decide to start fresh. Good intentions aside, how will you stick with your resolution and reach your goals? This is especially important to consider if you’re trying to overcome a porn habit, or any unhealthy sexual habit. You will need a support system of people who care, and you will need empowering resources. A Sexual Integrity Mentor, Accountability Partner, and Accountability Software are essential, but you’ll also need to open your mind to…

Sex Miseducation – Marriage, Oppression and Sexual Rights

Sex Miseducation – Marriage, Oppression and Sexual Rights

This is the 5th post in a 5 part series on sex mis-education Doesn’t Sex Only in Marriage Oppress Women? Some claim that purity and fidelity are based solely on protecting men’s property rights over their women. Though this is an exaggeration, there is some truth to the assertion that traditional morality is linked to male exploitation of women. Certainly there has been a double standard; chastity has almost universally been enforced for women but not for men. Boys and men have often been free to indulge themselves at the cost of girls and women. But it has been mostly women who…

Protecting Your Children From Porn

Protecting Your Children From Porn

Protecting children from the problems in the world doesn’t start with creating barriers or shelters. The best protection is teaching a child how to deal with problems, because problems will always exist. This is also true about the issues of pornography and sexual abuse. Personal Values Without Judgment When teaching children values such as sexual purity, modesty and how to relate to others, it’s best to show the personal benefit. Instead of teaching these values as a “great moral judgment”, we can teach them in a common sense way. How does it benefit a person to save sex for marriage,…

Should I Be An Accountability Partner?

Should I Be An Accountability Partner?

“You use steel to sharpen steel, and one friend sharpens another.” – Proverbs 27.17 Everyone benefits from a friendly reminder. It helps us stay focused on our goals. The person who does the reminding benefits as well. They become more aware of the value of discipline and integrity in their own lives. Be the Friendly Reminder Maybe someone has asked you to be an Accountability Partner. They need help to overcome their habit, and you are someone they trust. That’s a big step for them, and they’re only asking you to be a person who can offer that friendly reminder. Or perhaps you…