Why People Think Watching Porn Is Normal

Why People Think Watching Porn Is Normal

I saw this infographic with porn statistics on Huffington Post. The title for the infographic is “Everyone You Know is Watching Porn”. That sounds like an excuse an elementary school child would use, “but everyone does it!” And the good parent says, “That doesn’t make it right.” In our current culture, right and wrong are always relative. Religion and moral standards have been trashed as being “old-fashioned” and naïve. Instead we value individual feelings, and freedom of expression. Oh, but we only value what everyone else is doing and saying. There’s very little independent thinking going on. Who Needs to…

Not My Daughter – New Porn Targets Women

Not My Daughter – New Porn Targets Women

Most parents can’t imagine their sweet little girl getting into porn. We try to protect their innocence, and hope they will grow up and find their one true love. We hope they have a future that involves marriage and family. The porn industry has other ideas. They know that women are the last stronghold for morality. The porn industry is not satisfied with grooming female porn stars, they want female porn consumers. Porn producers are aggressively targeting women. No One Talks About It  Porn has always been a man’s pastime. People almost expect it, or at least tolerate it. People…

Why You Should Come To The High Noon Summit

Why You Should Come To The High Noon Summit

The sun is at the midpoint in the sky. It’s hot and everything is in plain sight. There are no shadows to hide in. It’s time for a showdown! The concept of high noon is to bring everything out in the open and deal with it. It’s a metaphor for living with complete integrity and transparency so that we can experience unconditional love. No Secrets, No Blame, No Shame Real love can’t flourish in a realm that’s clouded with secrets, shame and blame. However, with honesty and an open heart, compassion and forgiveness can flow. Solutions for the problem of porn…

Truth, Trust, Understanding and Support Liberates Porn Users

Truth, Trust, Understanding and Support Liberates Porn Users

Sometimes we don’t want to tell the truth, and sometimes we don’t want to know the truth. However, the foundation of a good marriage is honesty and trust. When we bring our struggles and problems out in the open, we create a way for God to work. Creating an Environment for Recovery In the following video, Crescentia DeGoede shares her testimony. Her fiance’s honesty about his struggle with porn helped them to work through the problem together. She shares how this problem affected her after marriage, as well as her husband’s commitment to recover. By trusting him, and believing in…

Lasting Love: A Relationship That Creates Joy!

Lasting Love: A Relationship That Creates Joy!

Sex is one of the ways that love can be expressed in a relationship. But not all sex is love. Porn is tempting because it arouses a burning physical desire. That desire is not connected to an impulse to give joy to the beloved, so it is not love. Love is a Relationship People often think love should be spontaneous, something that happens to you without your knowing why or how. But real love is more like a seed that sprouts and grows from within. It takes effort and nurturing because it’s a relationship. Love can not be experienced alone…

Get Skilled – In Healthy Lovemaking

Get Skilled – In Healthy Lovemaking

Part of recovery from the habit is to gain a better understanding of a healthy sexual relationship. However, if you’re single it’s best to think as little about sex as possible while you’re recovering from a porn habit. Married couples should do some research on the subject of lovemaking. Learn about the differences between men and women, and what a happily married sex life looks like. How To Create A Passionate Love Life Pornography “sells” its unrealistic and warped sex education very vividly. To counter this you need to re-educate yourself about lovemaking. With a new understanding and vision, you can create…

How Do I Help My Friend, Brother or Sister Who Has A Porn Habit?

How Do I Help My Friend, Brother or Sister Who Has A Porn Habit?

When you first find out that someone you care about has a porn habit you might feel like pulling away. You might be upset or angry, or you might feel like you have to do something to help them. All of these feelings are natural, but think through your responses before you get involved. Encourage Them to Get Professional Help A porn habit is like any other serious addiction. The relationship between the brain and body has been rewired into a state of dependency. It can take a lot of training and effort to change this habit. In some cases…

High Noon Summit On Porn – Register Now!

High Noon Summit On Porn – Register Now!

Calling all concerned Unificationists! Do you want to work together to create solutions? You know pornography is today’s problem, so… you’re invited to attend the High Noon Summit On Porn April 7 to April 9, 2017   at the International Peace Education Center in Las Vegas The summit is complete with speakers like Mike Leahy from Bravehearts, Sam Black from Covenant Eyes, Dawn Hawkins from the National Center on Sexual Exploitation, and Clay Olsen from Fight the New Drug. In addition, we’ll be hearing from our own Kevin Thompson, David Wolfenberger, Andrew Love, and many new faces who are taking up…

What Does Love Look Like?

What Does Love Look Like?

Do you think love is complicated, hard to describe, and difficult to figure out? Everyone longs for it because life is not worth living without it. We think we will know it when we see it, or feel it, but then we’re disappointed. Literature, movies, music and art are littered with the stories of broken hearts, love found and lost. The primary focus of the human saga is love and relationships. Yet, we still find ourselves confused about what love is, while we struggle to fulfill needs. The Imprint of Love’s Image Your earliest images of love came from your…

Start Fresh With A 30 Day Challenge!

Start Fresh With A 30 Day Challenge!

The Lunar New Year is another opportunity to challenge yourself to meet a desired goal. If you’re striving to overcome an unwanted sexual habit, here’s an idea to get you going. Challenge yourself to abstain from porn or masturbation for 30 days, but first, set up a winning strategy. 7 Steps to Success If you were going to run a race you would do some training first. Part of your preparation would be to understand your strengths and weaknesses, the environment and conditions you would be running in, and to set up a support system for the entire course. That’s a…

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