What’s Next? – Moving Forward After the High Noon Summit

What’s Next? – Moving Forward After the High Noon Summit

The High Noon Summit on Porn was a great success! Your heart may have been moved by the passionate speakers, or someone who gave a testimony. Many of you made a commitment to work with Pure Mind Online to create a culture of sexual integrity, or to rid your own life of sexual sin. Let’s look at some immediate results: Join the Movement – Summit on the Ground! This is a great start for creating a culture of sexual integrity that we can be proud of. We’ve also started a Summit Facebook group where you can share your thoughts and keep…

9 Ways To Be a Supportive Mentor or Accountability Partner

9 Ways To Be a Supportive Mentor or Accountability Partner

Would you like to help a friend who’s struggling, but you don’t know how? Sometimes it’s hard to know what to say. That’s why John Williams has put together this short presentation. How to Talk to Your Friend Even if you’re not an Accountability Partner, these 9 points will help anyone learn how to be more supportive. Remember, someone with a porn habit is struggling and already feels a lot of guilt. If it were easy to overcome this habit they wouldn’t need help. When they started watching porn they didn’t know how hard it would be to stop. It’s…

Accountability Partner Training Materials

Accountability Partner Training Materials

If you are a good friend and you like to help others succeed then you can be an Accountability Partner. Your interest and concern is valuable, but your method can make or break the relationship. Learn How You Can Help Reading the reports from the chosen accountability software is important, and not so difficult. What’s far more meaningful is what happens after that. How do you respond? How do you engage your friend in discussing their progress? It’s a good idea to learn as much as you can before you start this journey of helping someone become accountable. Below you’ll…

How to Help Your Children Protect Themselves from Pornogrophy

How to Help Your Children Protect Themselves from Pornogrophy

You can build a wall, but the enemy will find a way over or under it. Pornography is the enemy of childhood and it’s targeting all children. So the best way to protect your child is to teach him/her self-defense. The Heart and Body are Sacred Teach kids to value their own purity in body and mind. It’s not just the words we say to children, they learn from how we live. Live as if your body is God’s temple; take good care of it through healthy eating and exercise because that teaches self-discipline and self respect. Teach your child…

Your Role As A Parent – Be Hopeful

Your Role As A Parent – Be Hopeful

When your child was born you were hopeful. When they were learning to crawl, walk and use the toilet you encouraged them with faith that they would accomplish the task. You’ve been doing this all along, so don’t lose hope now when facing issues related to porn. You may be feeling overwhelmed because you don’t know how to help. But just like all the other challenges your child has overcome, he or she needed to find the power within and figure it out. Your belief in your son or daughter, and clear guidance, will give them strength. Protect Young Minds…

Why People Think Watching Porn Is Normal

Why People Think Watching Porn Is Normal

I saw this infographic with porn statistics on Huffington Post. The title for the infographic is “Everyone You Know is Watching Porn”. That sounds like an excuse an elementary school child would use, “but everyone does it!” And the good parent says, “That doesn’t make it right.” In our current culture, right and wrong are always relative. Religion and moral standards have been trashed as being “old-fashioned” and naïve. Instead we value individual feelings, and freedom of expression. Oh, but we only value what everyone else is doing and saying. There’s very little independent thinking going on. Who Needs to…

Not My Daughter – New Porn Targets Women

Not My Daughter – New Porn Targets Women

Most parents can’t imagine their sweet little girl getting into porn. We try to protect their innocence, and hope they will grow up and find their one true love. We hope they have a future that involves marriage and family. The porn industry has other ideas. They know that women are the last stronghold for morality. The porn industry is not satisfied with grooming female porn stars, they want female porn consumers. Porn producers are aggressively targeting women. No One Talks About It  Porn has always been a man’s pastime. People almost expect it, or at least tolerate it. People…

Why You Should Come To The High Noon Summit

Why You Should Come To The High Noon Summit

The sun is at the midpoint in the sky. It’s hot and everything is in plain sight. There are no shadows to hide in. It’s time for a showdown! The concept of high noon is to bring everything out in the open and deal with it. It’s a metaphor for living with complete integrity and transparency so that we can experience unconditional love. No Secrets, No Blame, No Shame Real love can’t flourish in a realm that’s clouded with secrets, shame and blame. However, with honesty and an open heart, compassion and forgiveness can flow. Solutions for the problem of porn…

Truth, Trust, Understanding and Support Liberates Porn Users

Truth, Trust, Understanding and Support Liberates Porn Users

Sometimes we don’t want to tell the truth, and sometimes we don’t want to know the truth. However, the foundation of a good marriage is honesty and trust. When we bring our struggles and problems out in the open, we create a way for God to work. Creating an Environment for Recovery In the following video, Crescentia DeGoede shares her testimony. Her fiance’s honesty about his struggle with porn helped them to work through the problem together. She shares how this problem affected her after marriage, as well as her husband’s commitment to recover. By trusting him, and believing in…

Lasting Love: A Relationship That Creates Joy!

Lasting Love: A Relationship That Creates Joy!

Sex is one of the ways that love can be expressed in a relationship. But not all sex is love. Porn is tempting because it arouses a burning physical desire. That desire is not connected to an impulse to give joy to the beloved, so it is not love. Love is a Relationship People often think love should be spontaneous, something that happens to you without your knowing why or how. But real love is more like a seed that sprouts and grows from within. It takes effort and nurturing because it’s a relationship. Love can not be experienced alone…

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