Part of recovery from the habit is to gain a better understanding of a healthy sexual relationship. However, if you’re single it’s best to think as little about sex as possible while you’re recovering from a porn habit. Married couples should do some research on the subject of lovemaking. Learn about the differences between men and women, and what a happily married sex life looks like.

How To Create A Passionate Love Life

Pornography “sells” its unrealistic and warped sex education very vividly. To counter this you need to re-educate yourself about lovemaking. With a new understanding and vision, you can create a sexual lifestyle to look forward to as a couple. As surprising as it seems, married couples have better sex lives than people who use porn. And a lot of married couples, even conservative religious couples, are willing to share their tips and tricks. Check out the links below.

Book List

“The Way To Love Your Wife”, by Cliff Penner –  Basics for a husband to satisfy his wife.

“Getting Your Sex Life Off To A Great Start”by Clifford & Joyce Penner – Excellent book for starting off your sex life after you’re married.

“The Good Girl’s Guide To Great Sex”by Sheila Wray Gregoire – A great book for every woman, but guys could learn a thing or two from this as well.

Maybe You’re Not Ready Yet

If you’re in the middle of withdrawal from a porn habit you may not be ready to dive into those books yet. Be patient with yourself and get help first. If you’re the spouse, be patient with your partner. Recovery and healing can be a slow process for both of you. Listen to Tray and Melody’s story below.

 

For more amazing recovery stories check out this YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLGFW9WKxkIT5Av7kS69u1-4Lkj4bEQaFR

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